28 April 2009
What goes WRONG actually if I have such CLOSE & FANTASTIC relationship with MY own beloved little SISTER?
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What’s the matter actually if I have such CLOSE & FANTASTIC relationship with MY own beloved little SISTER…? Am I wrong here?
I live together with my own beloved little sister in our small flat… just two of us since our parent has passed away long time ago. We have no more closed blood relative left. Anyway, I’m currently 20 and she’s 19 and we’re both studying in the same college. I’m majoring in physics while she’s on literature. We also earn more money by singing in the wedding and café.
We both are so totally open and genuine each other. We love to share about anything, even about our personal problem in college and our love and *** live. Sometimes, if I don’t hang out with my girlfriend and neither does she with her boyfriend, we’re used to killing some time together… going to the movie, strolling in the park, cooking our dinner together, kinda of brother and sister’s stuffs….
We never have a fight. Even if we DO fight, it’ll only last for hours… we’ll chill out on the next day. Also, I’m so happy that my sister befriends well with my girlfriend. I’m going to propose her soon and I love seeing the two most important women in my life can get along altogether!
However, some people talk about nasty stuffs behind us. I don’t know why they’re bad-mouthing us… talking about ****** and that kind of stuffs… Have I done something wrong here? What should I do then? Okay, I admit that we’re so closed… even closer than any ordinary brother and sister… but I still don’t see anything wrong or kind of “forbidden love” here….
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32 Comments so far...
Doug Says:
30 April 2009 at 2:21 am.
Nothing wrong with it. You’re fine.
jezebelring Says:
30 April 2009 at 2:26 am.
hey, as long as you’re not developing any romantic feelings at all, then the reality is that other people are just jealous. you’re very lucky to have a close family in this way.
moon dust Says:
2 May 2009 at 3:02 am.
There is nothing wrong with having a close relationship with your sister.
I can only suggest that the people who say bad things about it probably don’t have such a good relationship with their siblings so are jealous or find it odd.
not for you! Says:
5 May 2009 at 11:04 am.
Your fine and doing nothing wrong! I’m glad to see such a healthy family relationship!
viclyn Says:
5 May 2009 at 3:25 pm.
Without your parent, it sounds like you two can really count on each other. You are still your own little family. You will always need each other. Some people would be so lucky to have a special bond with anyone in their family like it sounds you two have. Don’t feel bad. Feel blessed. Keep counting those blessings and standing by each other. Those that don’t understand, forget them. You know what is important to you.
bahamadude91 Says:
7 May 2009 at 1:33 pm.
as long as u dont **** your sis, it’s all fine
ROCHELLE Says:
9 May 2009 at 9:34 pm.
I hope you haven’t slept w/ her that is so crazy and that would be ******. There is nothing wrong w/being close since your parents passed, but there is no excuse for being that close. what r u 2 thinking.
Nailhead_pixie Says:
9 May 2009 at 10:21 pm.
those who says those things about you guys are stupid and wrong and out of there head…there is nothing NOTHING wrong with such relationship and its wonderful actually…. dont ever think its wrong, they are just plain nasty and i think they are jealous of you two.. its not very common to have such love between brother and sister… cheers guys!!
bettywitdabigbooty Says:
11 May 2009 at 6:48 pm.
There is nothing wrong with having a closely bonded relationship with your sister! Especially since your parents had passed away long ago. It’s awesome that your girlfriend and your sis get along so well.
Good luck with your upcoming proposal!! Don’t worry about what others say! Maybe the ones that are talking behind your back are jealous cuz they don’t have good relationships with their siblings!
Nita Says:
13 May 2009 at 12:28 am.
I don’t see anything wrong as long as no romantic feelings are there. I think that it’s great that 2 siblings are that close. I’m extremely close to my brother so I know what you are talking about. Just don’t worry about what other people say. I would think that they are all jealous of the close relationship that you have with your sister, and wish that they have the same kind with their siblings.
irish_yankee51 Says:
14 May 2009 at 7:42 am.
It doesn’t sound like there is anything wrong with your relationship with your sister. Often when children are left to raise each other they become much closer than children raised by a parent. You have only each other to depend on and it makes you very protective of each other. I know of another family like yours and although both brother and sister are happily married now, they are still very protective of each other.
t g Says:
16 May 2009 at 10:31 am.
You are probably so close because your parents passed away. Being close to a sibling is not a bad thing, especially when it’s because of a death of a loved one!
mrs.scooter Says:
19 May 2009 at 1:26 am.
theres nothing wrong, with the relationship you and your sister have.i have 7 children and i pray that they will be there for one another, the way you and your sister are there for one another.i tell them that all the time and i also tell them after there father and i are gone all they will have is one another.i admire you guys i can only hope and pray that my children will have the type of relationship you and your sister have.and for those people who has had nothing good to say,i feel sorry for them because that let”s me know that they weren”t taught about family closeness and that as siblings they should be each others best friend. which means that they should always be there for one another no matter what that’s called unconditional love. so it kind of let”s you know how there relationships are with there siblings.so don”t let what there saying bother you,it seems to me that mom and dad did a hell !!! of a good job raising you guys.
uma Says:
21 May 2009 at 11:18 am.
the two of you were probably married in a past life. It is great that you have each other to rely on and depend on. As long as the two of you aren’t doing the deed and it is just brother sister stuff go for you.
I saw a sister jump into her brothers arms and plant an open mouth kiss on him…it was really gross.
Darkgoddess Says:
22 May 2009 at 8:41 am.
All I can say is that I wish I could be that close to my brother. And no nothing is wrong with you. Keep it up… And don’t listen to what others say is wrong if you know deep down that your not doing anything wrong then who care what they say.
tntass Says:
22 May 2009 at 8:10 pm.
Think its Grata I would like to have a sister like that
gary h Says:
24 May 2009 at 8:37 am.
If you are a typical college student, there is no hope for the future of the world.
Sweenygirll Says:
25 May 2009 at 8:58 am.
I think its wonderful that you two are so close,especially since you only have each other.
dkny Says:
26 May 2009 at 4:18 am.
nothing is wrong with being close with ur sis
I also have a close relationship with my brother
babybo49 Says:
26 May 2009 at 5:22 am.
I dont think anything is wrong!!
Old Wise One Says:
28 May 2009 at 6:12 am.
What we are talking about here is the diffence between “percieved boundries” and actual boundries,
Assuming no deep physical intamincy is occuring here your fine.
And don’t worry too much, people were spreading rumours around that I was *** about the time my 1st son was concieved.
Good luck and God Bless
Angelina T Says:
30 May 2009 at 12:23 am.
Nothing is wrong with you! Nothing at all and if someone said there was than maybe they’re just jealous!Keep your relationship tight with her.
CHAD P Says:
31 May 2009 at 11:31 am.
nothing wrong unless it interferes with your dating and relationships with other people. that is when its time to develop your own identities.
Da vinci Says:
3 June 2009 at 10:38 pm.
there’s nothing wrong with it unless you are hidding something and feel guilty about it, that is why your asking this question
mastinox Says:
5 June 2009 at 4:25 am.
I think that is great! I wish my family got along…
Don’t worry about what people say and think…
ulaganathan p Says:
5 June 2009 at 8:46 pm.
It is wonderful to have an affectionate sister. But, as you grow old, you have to maintain a dignified distance from her, physically. At least, that is what is advisable, in our culture.
idaniels.svgirl09 Says:
7 June 2009 at 11:42 pm.
ok that is great but some times it its good to be close to your sister like that.
kittylove Says:
8 June 2009 at 8:14 pm.
As long as there is nothing sexsual going on, I think it’s great to have such a loving relationship. Don’t let stupid, jealous people get you down.
Karie Says:
8 June 2009 at 9:34 pm.
well its all good as long as u nor ur sister are having any sexual feelings…….then i’d hafta say ur a freak n thats gross but u seem to be going about it ok….its nice to have a close bond with family after such a tragedy. I wish i had someone like that to lean on when my fiance passed away in sept. good luck in ur future endeavors peace!
hoho Says:
11 June 2009 at 4:37 am.
so whats the problem?
Neil G Says:
11 June 2009 at 11:01 am.
sounds fine too me i wish i was that close to my brothers and sisters oh take care
mzjury Says:
12 June 2009 at 9:25 am.
there is nothing wrong with your relationship my brother and I are the same way we never lived together as adults but we always made sure we lived next door to each other I would feel ill if i could not talk to my brother it is okay !!! people are just mean you know jealousy will get you nowhere maybe they are not close to their own families my husband didn’t understand at 1st either he used to say that we were weird but then i realized he had 3 other siblings 1 sister who hasn’t been home in 15 yrs they all live in different states he said his mother put them against each other as children so as adults they have no relationship at all which is sad cause i could not imagine not seeing mine. And further more you are being a great male example in her life and all women need a good male role model so that she wont take the crap out there I Love that you two are close continue living your life if you are happy who cares what other people think !