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My ex abandoned me 4 months ago. He basically dumped me without telling me that he was dumping me. No explanation, or warning whatsoever. He simply did not contact me for 4 MONTHS after!!! He ignored me on Valentine’s Day, Easter, my birthday, and didnt invite me to his 18th birthday.

Yesterday, after 4 LONG months of “no contact”, he out-of-the-blue sends me 2 texts messages from AIM (somehow he can text my cell phone from AIM Instant Messenger), and then 2 minutes later he actually calls my phone (“drunk-dialed” my phone.)

All of this took place within a 5-minute time frame. Why would he even have my number or AIM screen name after 4 months of IGNORING ME. It’s not like we broke up on good terms since he abandoned me. He’s bipolar type 1, drinks, and smokes weed. But he would never treat his current “significant other” this way… no matter how drunk he was. He’s 18-years-ld and I was much older. He was using me financially for money/gifts.

Anywyas, he talked to me for 2-minutes and then asks me to drive to see him.
He doesnt have a car, so I drove 3 hours roundtrip (90 minutes each way) to see him and he STANDS ME UP?

How can someone change their mind in 90 minutes? I was sitting in my car, on his driveway, pissed.

I sent him 2 texts messages, and called his phone which he let go to voicemail.

The bottom line is I wasted 3 hours of my life, and $25 of my hard-earned money on gas.
Earlier that night I had just driven 4 hours on a long-distance trip.

He never apologized the next day for standing me up, or for abandoning me 4 months earlier.

A couple days later, I sent him like a 30-page email. He never even responded.

What was his point in calling me (after 4 months) if he was just going to stand me up?

Obviously, he doesnt care about me. He doesnt love me. He doesnt want to be with me. I am nothing to him.

How would you feel if your ex (whom you fell in love with) did this rotten drunk-dial nonsense to you after 4 months of no contact?

I was hoping when I arrived at his house that he was going to apologize for abandoning me 4 months earlier, but instead he stood me up. Very sad indeed.

Even if he was “drunk”, he could have apologized the next day when he sobered up. He could have responded to my email. I guess he simply does not want to reconcile. He just continues to ignore me.

He’s 18 and im 36. I live 90 minutes away from him, each way.

Anyways, he never apologized for abandoning me 4 months ago, or for standing me up last night, or making me spend all that gas money ($25).

Im just a sugar daddy to him. He abuses my love for him, H ewould neevr do this to anyone else.

Is he a bad person?

He’s had 12 “relationships” by the time he was 16. He’s a high school drop out. He was sent into foster care at a late age of 16. He spent 6 months their. Anyways, he likes to drink and is hyper-sexual. A ************. He lies, manipulates, and cheats.

Does this have anything to do with BIPOLAR type 1?

He doesn’t take his Seroquel medication, or go to therapy. He smokes weed daily, and cigarettes. He also drinks.

How do you think I felt when I saw his ex’s car on his driveway when I arrived at his house?

It is mental torture for me. And yes, he is incredibly **** and good looking.